Canberra teens who 'blackmailed' men on gay dating apps denied bail. By Elizabeth Byrne Topics: gays-and-lesbians, states-and-territories. As a year-old gay man, I've witnessed great changes in Taiwanese society's around age eleven, but back then homosexuality was still a taboo topic, and I didn't dare tell anyone. .. The app has, however, also changed the way we date. As the Founder of SCRUFF, one of the largest gay dating apps in the world, I'm regularly asked if it's realistic that guys can find real love and long lasting.